As men we think don't think about how our behavior effects women in current or past situations. We go about life thinking with our. "manhood" instead of thinking with our hearts and our minds. We choose to know our women as objects or "sex toys" instead of embracing the facts on how we feel. It's one thing being honest with a woman telling them "I'm not looking for a relationship or just looking for a f**k buddy". All of us men have been here before telling a woman these key things.
I asked myself for years why am I that way and currently I still am. This lack of commitment began back when I was in grade school. I was in love with a young girl that messed my heart up in the long run and then the expected happen. I began to have a bitter disregard for how woman relate to me. Thinking that having sex with a woman and getting to know them as a whole would be the answer to soon leave in the long run. But as we overlook those feelings because of our own hurt we tend to break barriers in a woman's life. You give her the feeling of gaining trust again with the late night conversations only to disappear months later because she could become clingy.
So how do u change yourself from disregarding a females feelings to wanting to change and find that one? To for commitment we first need to realize how would we feel if we were to lose that special woman in our life, that "f**k buddy" that has been there for years but you never made. that commitment. cause she would be perfect. If you lost her knowing she would be doing everything that she did for you over the years for someone else. Knowing how you feel about her and embracing your. feelings to her is the start. The key is not dwelling on the fact that a "title" is involved now, because that could shake the tide of the future relationship. We as men have to have a reason to commit to her and only wanna be with that one woman, to build our future and. family for happiness and commit to have loyalty in our relationships.
Will you take the oath to change? Will you stop the temptation and the urge for new "p**sy" or conversation. Take the first step today and commit to the one that you love or you will lose her gradually with time.